Thinking about Divorce? Here's how to get organized.

Originally published 01/29/2026

Preparing for divorce can feel overwhelming, but taking time to get organized before the legal process begins can make a meaningful difference. When clients are prepared, cases often move more smoothly, with fewer surprises and less stress along the way. Thoughtful preparation allows you to make informed decisions, protect your interests, and focus on what matters most—your future and your children.

Get Organized

Organization is one of the most powerful tools you have at the start of a divorce. Begin with your paperwork. 

1. Make sure you have a complete picture of your recent financial history. Gather and save at least three years of monthly statements for all financial accounts, including checking and savings accounts, credit cards, retirement plans, life insurance policies, health insurance plans, tax returns, and pay stubs.

Having these documents readily available saves time and helps your attorney assess your case accurately. Having a comprehensive financial snapshot also helps prevent missing assets or debts and reduces the likelihood of disputes later in the case.

2. Take time to identify your financial needs, goals, and priorities for both you and your children. Knowing what outcomes matter most to you will help guide decisions throughout the process.

3. Create a list of your expenses, including housing, utilities, food, transportation, insurance, childcare, and other regular expenses. This information is essential for understanding what you need to support yourself and your children during and after the divorce. Using this data, create a clear monthly budget that outlines your realistic income needs.

4. Consider your employment situation. If you are currently working, evaluate whether your income is sufficient to support you and your children independently. If you are not working or your income is limited, begin developing a plan to enter or reenter the workforce or increase your earning capacity.

5. If you have children, gathering their records is equally important. Ensure you have copies of birth certificates, passports, etc. Collect school schedules, report cards, and information about extracurricular activities. Assemble medical records, including any ongoing conditions, medications, or special care needs. And document any extraordinary expenses related to your children, such as therapy, tutoring, or specialized programs. Gather and keep proof of costs related to the children’s needs and activities. This information is critical when addressing custody, parenting time, and financial support.

Thinking through these issues early can help avoid conflict and confusion later. Even a preliminary framework can be helpful when discussions begin and can provide structure during a period of transition.

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